What People Truly Remember
It’s not your qualifications, job title, or how much money you have but people will always remember how you make them feel. This lesson didn’t come to me overnight—I learned it through experience.
A Lesson in Feelings
Fresh out of college, I went to my first job interview. Nervous and unsure, I faced a panel of three interviewers. While two were kind, one seemed determined to tear me down. They pointed out my flaws and even accused me of having imposter syndrome. I left that room feeling defeated, and even years later, I still remember how awful it made me feel.
The Power of Encouragement
Thankfully, I’ve also met people who believed in me. They focused on my strengths, supported me when I doubted myself, and made me feel valued. Their kindness left a lasting impression on me, and to this day, I’m grateful for the positivity they brought into my life.
Why Feelings Matter More Than Words
We might forget the specifics of what someone said or did, but we never forget the emotions they stirred in us. A kind gesture or an encouraging word can inspire us for years, while a careless remark can leave scars.
Practicing Kindness Every Day
Now, I make it a point to treat others the way I’d want to be treated. Whether it’s offering encouragement, being a good listener, or simply avoiding unnecessary criticism, I try to leave people better than I found them.
The Lasting Impact of Kindness
In the end, people may forget your words or actions, but they’ll never forget how you made them feel. So, let’s choose kindness—it’s the one thing everyone will always remember.